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My waist finally looks like how it did before I had kids but I didn’t lose weight. Why am I still 15 lbs from my starting weight?

Last Updated: 21.06.2025 15:09

My waist finally looks like how it did before I had kids but I didn’t lose weight. Why am I still 15 lbs from my starting weight?

My honest guess:

If your breasts provide milk without hurting or poisoning your children your husband should be thankful.

Should I have left it alone and kept quiet? I came out as gay to my adult kids last week. Age 61 married 15 years, divorced for 20. I feel so guilty for ruining their lives by living a lie.

Maybe you had implants installed, or maybe you gained cupsizes from lactation.

If your children have to take formula or drink too much water at the water fountain, maybe your husband should be grateful anyway though your children have a right to complain and as parents you should do what you can to make sure your children are developing functioning brains and personalities. If you’re trying to do evil slight of hand I think it’s easier on girls though there’s no reason to send any boys through transition just because their parents have a thing for boobs.

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Otherwise, it is also possible you gained brain mass from understanding children which is respectable too.